"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cervantesscthree

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A girls who's a course mate of mine (who I have no intention of sleeping with) has so far texted me, and commented on pics of us saying that she loves me 3 times, so I wanted to know if . . . you know what, fu** the petty sh*t. This is what I really want to say. I ALWAYS blame any messed up or stupid thing men do because of women on a beta mind state. So, I was at an event earlier today, which looked on the reasons why people immigrate. These were various of course, but this led to the mentioning of the fact that almost 50% of men in Papa New Guinea have admitted to raping, or gang raping a woman. I know it might be miles away from ppl, but distance isn't relevant here, the fact that they are men, is. I'm all for equality, I don't want decent fathers unable to see their kids, I don't want soldiers coming back to homelessness and broken families, I don't want men killing themselves or ruining their lives in the pursuit of vagina, on any part of the planet :box:, but, I also don't want women getting raped.

I'm not a feminist but my point is that the thought of rape has never crossed my mind, but I've grown up with access to game so the concept may seem inconceivable to me. But many ppl on this forum have been an AFC, therefore at one time, were in in a state of desperation when it comes to the touch of a woman. I wanted to know, if anyone agrees that the thought of rape comes with the beta mind state, and that ONLY. It seems like an OBVIOUS yes, but, if that many men are doing it in one country, then I have to question myself, can it simply be because of a beta mind frame, or is it something else?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I feel it roots deeper than that. When i was a beta i would never touch a girl let alone think about rape. Now if the individual had a terrible upbringing along with social and cultura influence, of course. But that would be society to blame and that would mean that area or even country is going to sh*t.

However i agree most "messed up" things done by guys is from a beta or weak mindset. Rape is not in this category, but cheating is.
 

cervantesscthree

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Frayzer said:
I feel it roots deeper than that. When i was a beta i would never touch a girl let alone think about rape. Now if the individual had a terrible upbringing along with social and cultura influence, of course. But that would be society to blame and that would mean that area or even country is going to sh*t.

However i agree most "messed up" things done by guys is from a beta or weak mindset. Rape is not in this category, but cheating is.
Yeah that was confusing me as I thought a lot of the beta mind frame involved being afraid of women. I agree upbringing, cultural and social influence must play a part, (and Papa New Guinea's never had a great history of human rights) but rape is in every culture and society and definitely not all societies influence that behaviour, so there has to be something else. Maybe in countries like over here in the UK, it might be due to an individuals decision, or the situation they're in at the time may just create the environment, moment or opportunity for it.

Most definitely.
 
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