"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whats going on with the forums?

Create Reality

Master Don Juan
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What has been wrong with the website?

How come me and friends have been getting all kinds of errors connecting to the forum recently? Is sosuave growing too big for it's briches?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tactic

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i turned off the hacks
 

Smooth Player 056

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yeah it was just off 5 min ago


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Void

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Originally posted by diablo
I just got back in town after nearly 2 weeks in Virginia to find the site was 404'ing. Seems like it's back to normal now, though...
i live in virginia buddy...should've said something..
 
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