"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's going on in this world? lol

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I saw a couple of nice looking women today with this old man, he looked like a drunk, unshaved, dirty and guess what happened? he got a kiss on the cheek from one of them, now, I dunno whether or not he was a family member but I couldn't help thinking to myself, what the hell is going on here? even if I make myself clean and tidy I never get a kiss on the cheek even by women I know. lol

anyone else experience the same sort of thing, if so, mention it here ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey, this guy prob is hugh heffner from playboy! but no, i've never experience anything like that but i did met a few girls that have sloppy bf.
 
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It's called social proof. This guy probably knows the game, can talk the walk, walk the talk, and once a few girls start to like and talk to him, then every girl wants to like and talk to him. He knows that girls like to fight to see who wins the guy, and justly so, pits them against each other, focusing attention back and forth.

I had a buddy that ran into the same kind of guy. This guy told my buddy and his friend to act like you know him. This guy found a set of girls and opened them with HEllo...blah balh own company, these are my sons, blah blah.

Learn something from him ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Labourer said:
I saw a couple of nice looking women today with this old man, he looked like a drunk, unshaved, dirty and guess what happened? he got a kiss on the cheek from one of them, now, I dunno whether or not he was a family member but I couldn't help thinking to myself, what the hell is going on here? even if I make myself clean and tidy I never get a kiss on the cheek even by women I know. lol

anyone else experience the same sort of thing, if so, mention it here ;)
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I start to get annoyed by posts like these. Its already been proven anyone can get girls if they learn. We've seen it from old men, bald men, fat men, disabled men, etc. Your in this game so you should already know how he got those girls stop worrying about superfical things and instead realize that you could've gamed her and got her just like the old man did.
 
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i cant believe this is a thread.......are u guys seriously that pathetic????

WOW HE GOT A KISS ON THE CHEEK!!! i bet that means he gets laid huh??? first of all, NO A DRUNK UGLY MAN CANNOT GET HOT WOMEN. WHY IS THIS EVEN BEING ASKED???

i mean, u are seriously retarded, ur taking a completely random scenario where u see some people on the street, and all of a sudden u are all saying "yes, ANYONE can get girls"

u guys, whoever think is, are DELLUSIONAL. The guy 100% is NOT banging them, hes either family, or a friend who needs help.

I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT U PEOPLE CALL URSELVES MEN. U OVERANALYZE EVERYTHING LIKE ****ING CHICKS!!
 
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Wow..skip..underminding intelligence again? I provided a similar statement to help support the fact that older men can still have game. Maybe he gets laid, maybe he doesn't, but it's the whole dymanics of it. He's got girls around him, they compete for his attention, I wouldn't put it past him getting laid.

Take a breath skip and settle down.
 
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Docs - an alcoholic whos also ugly will not be having sex with chicks that are anywhere close to good looking.

agreed?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nope. Why would I agree to that? You want me to drop my consideration that he could very well be sexing them because of how he knows the game, to...he's ugly and therefore cannot have sex.

Comeon skip...
 
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Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
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You are being illogical here. You can't test your claim. If a guy gets sex from beautiful woman he must be handsome (not ugly) according to you. If he doesn't he must be ugly. You have no way of determining to which he belongs before sex happens or doesnt. You see, it's a tautology.

For the site note, looks do help but it's not the end of all things. Looks matter much less for chicks than they do for men.
 
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Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
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Ever heard about Biggie Smalls,Shabba Ranks,Mick Jagger?Very few if any women consider them good looking but they have an have always gotten women.Do they get more women now they are celebs with money sure.Money only goes so far though.Those guys have game and have always had it.I am sure if you go back to their high school days and before you will see they always got all kinds of women.They probably got more women than some good looking guys.Never underestimate game.
 
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Ever heard about Biggie Smalls,Shabba Ranks,Mick Jagger?
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I've never heard of Shabba Ranks, allthough I'm guessing he's a celebrity like BIG and Jagger. Don't compare your game to famous people or movies.

Now, ask him "Ever heard about 90% of guys that get some in this site and 90% of all men? Now they are some ugly mofos, and still get some, and get more than you and me. Btw, you are ugly, and skinny." --- That would be a better question... ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamePendo said:
I've never heard of Shabba Ranks, allthough I'm guessing he's a celebrity like BIG and Jagger. Don't compare your game to famous people or movies.

Now, ask him "Ever heard about 90% of guys that get some in this site and 90% of all men? Now they are some ugly mofos, and still get some, and get more than you and me. Btw, you are ugly, and skinny." --- That would be a better question... ;)
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No I'm saying those guys never allowed their looks or lack of it to affect them.I'm saying these guys were ladies men since before they became famous.Their celebrity got them more girls yes but it's not like if they all of a sudden came into their own when they became famous they always had game and always got females at least better looking than them if not good looking.My point here is if they can no man should allow his lack of looks to totlaly consume him.
 
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