"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I saw a couple of nice looking women today with this old man, he looked like a drunk, unshaved, dirty and guess what happened? he got a kiss on the cheek from one of them, now, I dunno whether or not he was a family member but I couldn't help thinking to myself, what the hell is going on here? even if I make myself clean and tidy I never get a kiss on the cheek even by women I know. lol

anyone else experience the same sort of thing, if so, mention it here ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hey, this guy prob is hugh heffner from playboy! but no, i've never experience anything like that but i did met a few girls that have sloppy bf.
 
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It's called social proof. This guy probably knows the game, can talk the walk, walk the talk, and once a few girls start to like and talk to him, then every girl wants to like and talk to him. He knows that girls like to fight to see who wins the guy, and justly so, pits them against each other, focusing attention back and forth.

I had a buddy that ran into the same kind of guy. This guy told my buddy and his friend to act like you know him. This guy found a set of girls and opened them with HEllo...blah balh own company, these are my sons, blah blah.

Learn something from him ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Labourer said:
I saw a couple of nice looking women today with this old man, he looked like a drunk, unshaved, dirty and guess what happened? he got a kiss on the cheek from one of them, now, I dunno whether or not he was a family member but I couldn't help thinking to myself, what the hell is going on here? even if I make myself clean and tidy I never get a kiss on the cheek even by women I know. lol

anyone else experience the same sort of thing, if so, mention it here ;)
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I start to get annoyed by posts like these. Its already been proven anyone can get girls if they learn. We've seen it from old men, bald men, fat men, disabled men, etc. Your in this game so you should already know how he got those girls stop worrying about superfical things and instead realize that you could've gamed her and got her just like the old man did.
 
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i cant believe this is a thread.......are u guys seriously that pathetic????

WOW HE GOT A KISS ON THE CHEEK!!! i bet that means he gets laid huh??? first of all, NO A DRUNK UGLY MAN CANNOT GET HOT WOMEN. WHY IS THIS EVEN BEING ASKED???

i mean, u are seriously retarded, ur taking a completely random scenario where u see some people on the street, and all of a sudden u are all saying "yes, ANYONE can get girls"

u guys, whoever think is, are DELLUSIONAL. The guy 100% is NOT banging them, hes either family, or a friend who needs help.

I CANNOT BELIEVE THAT U PEOPLE CALL URSELVES MEN. U OVERANALYZE EVERYTHING LIKE ****ING CHICKS!!
 
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Wow..skip..underminding intelligence again? I provided a similar statement to help support the fact that older men can still have game. Maybe he gets laid, maybe he doesn't, but it's the whole dymanics of it. He's got girls around him, they compete for his attention, I wouldn't put it past him getting laid.

Take a breath skip and settle down.
 
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Docs - an alcoholic whos also ugly will not be having sex with chicks that are anywhere close to good looking.

agreed?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nope. Why would I agree to that? You want me to drop my consideration that he could very well be sexing them because of how he knows the game, to...he's ugly and therefore cannot have sex.

Comeon skip...
 
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Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
 
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skip2mylou781 said:
Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
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You are being illogical here. You can't test your claim. If a guy gets sex from beautiful woman he must be handsome (not ugly) according to you. If he doesn't he must be ugly. You have no way of determining to which he belongs before sex happens or doesnt. You see, it's a tautology.

For the site note, looks do help but it's not the end of all things. Looks matter much less for chicks than they do for men.
 
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Docs, an ugly guy will never get sex from hot women, looks is very important!
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Ever heard about Biggie Smalls,Shabba Ranks,Mick Jagger?Very few if any women consider them good looking but they have an have always gotten women.Do they get more women now they are celebs with money sure.Money only goes so far though.Those guys have game and have always had it.I am sure if you go back to their high school days and before you will see they always got all kinds of women.They probably got more women than some good looking guys.Never underestimate game.
 
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Ever heard about Biggie Smalls,Shabba Ranks,Mick Jagger?
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I've never heard of Shabba Ranks, allthough I'm guessing he's a celebrity like BIG and Jagger. Don't compare your game to famous people or movies.

Now, ask him "Ever heard about 90% of guys that get some in this site and 90% of all men? Now they are some ugly mofos, and still get some, and get more than you and me. Btw, you are ugly, and skinny." --- That would be a better question... ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamePendo said:
I've never heard of Shabba Ranks, allthough I'm guessing he's a celebrity like BIG and Jagger. Don't compare your game to famous people or movies.

Now, ask him "Ever heard about 90% of guys that get some in this site and 90% of all men? Now they are some ugly mofos, and still get some, and get more than you and me. Btw, you are ugly, and skinny." --- That would be a better question... ;)
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No I'm saying those guys never allowed their looks or lack of it to affect them.I'm saying these guys were ladies men since before they became famous.Their celebrity got them more girls yes but it's not like if they all of a sudden came into their own when they became famous they always had game and always got females at least better looking than them if not good looking.My point here is if they can no man should allow his lack of looks to totlaly consume him.
 
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