"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whats fun things to do mon-wed

paintballz

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i mean thur-sun its on like donkey kong, what i want to know is what you DJ's do mon-wed nights to have fun with a chick? around here aint much to do...

what do you all do during down time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Librarian

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Sunday-Wednesday are my days. I know that doesn't really answer your question, but everyone needs some time to themselves. I take Sunday-Wednesday to do the housework I need to do, get some reading in, maybe do a little writing, and especially get plenty of sleep to prepare for the weekend. If someone wants my attention, they need to come up with something to get it.

On the other hand, I flat out told this to a woman I had no interest in a few days ago, and she tried like hell to come up with something interesting. So, aside from it being a prep time, maybe this kind of strategy can work for you too.
 

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true that, alone time is also golden... so its a win/win situation IMO

thanks bro
 
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