"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whats best way to start convo with girl?

thekcguyme

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When it comes to meeting women in public I fall flat on my butt almost everytime. Whats the best way to start a conversation with a woman at barnes and noble or starbucks or some place like that? I'm having troubles letting go of my ex-gf and I have to meet some new faces or I'm going to go nutz!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Keep it simple and don't try to dazzle them with some canned line.
 

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Well from what I've learned don't stress the opener, you can say anything, it's not the words that really matter, it's how you convey it subconsciously.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Best way is to ask something about her in terms of the venue or environment you see her at...be sure its an open ended question and remember its how u ask it to :)
 

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"Hey! Whats up?"


Start with that and work from there.

Standard response is: "Hi...not much, you?"

Always be ready to respond to that with something "unboring"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tha Realnezz

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Throw out your signals,eye contact and the like..(don't stare) then just say "Hi......wassup"...make a comment on the situation...etc..Don't ask dumb questions cuz they're lame and if she works shes just gonna be annoyed...
 

ElStud

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BluEyes said:
"Hey! Whats up?"


Start with that and work from there.

Standard response is: "Hi...not much, you?"

Always be ready to respond to that with something "unboring"
Why the hell am I on your ignore list? Anywho, more standardly girls will just say "Nothing" most girls won't even ask back. All that fluff talk should really be done after she shows interest. Because to be honest, most girls won't show interest if you just ask questions. Try DHVing or telling a story or something. Really though, I've learned that words don't really matter if you're conveying it right.
 

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I just say hi and start rambling on something usually,then ask her opinion on it.. and it works...

example:I see a chic noticing me at a bustop,train terminal or whatever...I keep eye contact say "hey,wassup how long you been waiting for the train,bus...yadda yadaa...oh me two,the other day i was..yadda,yadda...."..usually they bite cuz girls like to talk..
 
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