"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whats behind Women who color their hair different once every two months

LoneSilver

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Whats with women who color their hair different once about ever two months or so?

One time it might be blonde another time a ****ty brown color or some frosted color? Why don't they leave it alone already.

I had my eye on this pretty light browned hair babe and the next thing I know she changes her hair to blonde and I get use to her being blonde and then she changes it to some crappy brown color to the point I didn't even recognize her. I can tell it's not professional done too.

Are these types just attention *****s or is there something else going on here? I know very mature attractive women don't change their hair color but keep to the same color type and look find to cover any grays that might be coming in if that is whats going on.

It's almost as annoying as being attracted to a sweety with long shoulder length hair and the next thing you know it's above her ears and looks like a dude.

Whats up with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They are being unpredictable and not boring!
 

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I would say once about every month or so would be quick succesions on this one lady I see around often and definitely if it's for attention she's got mine I just wonder what next month color will be?...lol.

LoneSilver


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Ahh is she a grunger? Very common in grunge-world. Otherwise she wants and craves attention, every once in a while is experimenting with styles, but dying it in quick succession is wanting attention.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LoneSilver said:
I would say once about every month or so would be quick succesions on this one lady I see around often and definitely if it's for attention she's got mine I just wonder what next month color will be?...lol.

LoneSilver
Maybe bald, who knows these crazy chicks. At least then you know nothing else would happen during the months it will take for her hair to grow back to "normal" shoulder length again.
 
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