"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whats banter?

Deadly_Assassin

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whats banter? another question say if a chick has interest in you but a while later u have a pretty boring conversation with her can she completely loose interest in you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Main Entry: 1ban·ter
Pronunciation: 'ban-t&r
Function: verb
Etymology: origin unknown
transitive senses
1 : to speak to or address in a witty and teasing manner
2 archaic : DELUDE
3 chiefly Southern & Midland : CHALLENGE
intransitive senses : to speak or act playfully or wittily


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Your second question is pretty vague. Try not to be boring ;)
 

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it means interesting conversation
 
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