"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whats banter?

Deadly_Assassin

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whats banter? another question say if a chick has interest in you but a while later u have a pretty boring conversation with her can she completely loose interest in you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Main Entry: 1ban·ter
Pronunciation: 'ban-t&r
Function: verb
Etymology: origin unknown
transitive senses
1 : to speak to or address in a witty and teasing manner
2 archaic : DELUDE
3 chiefly Southern & Midland : CHALLENGE
intransitive senses : to speak or act playfully or wittily


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Your second question is pretty vague. Try not to be boring ;)
 

gav

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it means interesting conversation
 
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