"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's a slick way to respond to this?

Fly By Night

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I am making out with this one chick and I'm trying to escalate in a certain way. (taking clothes off, different position, etc.) Then she backs off then starts asking "Why?" to EVERYTHING. It actually got kind of annoying, I just wanted to be like "'CAUSE THAT'S WHAT MEN AND WOMEN DO WHEN THEY LIKE EACH OTHER!!" but that would be bad.

How do you respond to this? I'm just trying to escalate then she starts trying to switch the physical action to verbal.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Eternal_water

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I dunno maybe lock eyes kiss her to shut her up. Hard to know really, not many details there
 
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