What's a relationship?

[NSX-R]

So here is my thing.
I bang 2 chicks at the moment with one of them being my main plate. The thing is , they want to chat and do things with me but i don't . The whole relationship situation bores me to death . The only thing i want from them is sex and nothing more. And it's not only with them. Ever since I've been into djism , is this way.

Still though, i put myself into thought and i try to think , what's a relationship and what kind of benefits it has. I have my family and my friends so i don't feel alone. I'm 99% financially better than all of the gf i had or i know . They can only offer me sex .Why would i be in a relationship then?

What's your idea of a relationship?

 

[Urbanyst]

A relationship is basically tolerating female bullsh*t so you can keep having sex with the same woman.

Outside of the sexual part, some men enjoy the social status and being able to relate to other men in relationships better. Also gives you someone to travel with and do things with. That can be good or bad depending on how much you enjoy their company.

I think these days the main benefit of relationships is social image or social status. After age 30 there seems to be more pressure.

In my opinion, fake and insecure men need to protect their image. Real men don't care.

 

[Red Legg]

A relationship is someone you CHOOSE to tolerate in your life,find the ones worth suffering for.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A relationship is someone you CHOOSE to tolerate in your life,find the ones worth suffering for.

It shouldn't be "tolerate". That person should be an addition into your life and you should be an addition into yours. There isn't much suffering because you help each other.

 

[playa99]

I'm with @mrgoodstuff. A relationship should be mutually beneficial. A relationship with the inference of suffering is not one I would want to be in.

Someone whose company you enjoy, and you can progress your life with. Unfortunately, it doesn't work this way in a lot of relationships. Your job is to screen for a woman who you want to be with & fits your interests.

 

[Chamber36]

I always thought of it like this:

A woman gives a guy sex in order to obtain a relationship.

A man gives a woman a relationship in order to obtain sex.

Don't know if that's completely true. I don't mind having a relationship in and of itself with a woman, just on friendly terms. But I find that unless you fvck a woman regularly it's hard to have her respect you at all (for most women). The most important thing is respect. If a woman respects you, she will usually also automatically fvck you.

Then they bring on some psycho-love-drama bull****, and they slowly start emasculating you until... Well I dunno what.

 

[wifehunter]

Help, companionship, someone to joking around with...(entertainment)

Which, pretty much, rules out most of the ladies.

Love is not self-seeking.

 

[bigneil]

When you pay the same girl more than once.

Joking.

 

[Von]

2 incomplete individuals coming together to become perfect

 

[bigneil]

2 incomplete individuals coming together to become perfect

Oh, God.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I made a thread about this to challenge Poon King before his ban. You can look there. The only time you will get benefits that spinning plates won't provide you with is when you are bored of spinning plates. Otherwise don't do it because it'd be pointless.

 

[Serenity]

It's like a friend, just more intimate in every way. For any girl to qualify for a relationship with me she must be like a friend, enjoy sex and be of a personality that I can appreciate for an extended period of time.

If there's no sex she's just a friend. If I can't handle being with her for long periods of time she's probably not even my friend. If she's not like a friend and I have sex with her she's just a masturbation tool.

Basically I enjoy the company of a particular type of woman, on multiple levels. It is not based on fear of being alone, it is not based solely on sex, it's not based on what I could gain financially. It is based on how much fun it is being with her.

You could argue like you do about friends, you have family so you're not alone, you're financially well off and you can't even have sex with them. What do you gain from it? Why bother having them? A relationship (a healthy one at least) is friendship with physical intimacy. You're not even considering any other aspect of women besides that hole between their legs. The only thing you use them as is a masturbation tool, you could just as well have bought a fleshlight because it won't bother you with human behavior. Those two chicks understand what a relationship is about, they want to get to know you in more than one way. To them sex is only a part of the bigger picture, to you sex is the entire picture. So your view of relationships is quite narrow IMO.

tl;dr Relationships is about a lot more than just sex.

 

[raider87]

2 incomplete individuals coming together to become perfect

Jerry Maguire stopped by.

 

[wifehunter]

Jerry Maguire stopped by.

You had me at "Jerry".

 

[wifehunter]

Oh, God.

Right, only God is perfect.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

A relationship checks your ego.

 

[Juanto]

For you guys, when does it start to be a relationship? Only when SHE brings it up and SPECIFICALLY asks for exclusivity? Innuendo doesnt count in this case, right?

 

[Billtx49]

For you guys, when does it start to be a relationship? Only when SHE brings it up and SPECIFICALLY asks for exclusivity? Innuendo doesnt count in this case, right?

That's right. Wait until she tries to rope you in. She will be very clear about it if that's what she wants with you. Really depends on how long you have been seeing each other…
Some girls will just throw questions at you -
What are we? Are we a couple now? Where do you see us going?,etc..
With this type of girl, make her work for it by being semi-noncommital and flippant with your answers if you sense she wants one. Chances are she does if you get these questions…

 

[Bingo-Player]

a relationship should be something you use to build you into a stronger man

you should only enter a relationship with a woman you are 100% sure she can make you're life better than it is when you are single

women are inherently there to support and progress they're man through his life by carrying his children , offering emotional support and advice and having sex with him to relax and de stress him

these lines have been blurred lately by modern society because women have become so empowered and men are just supplicating to them

being in a relationship with a beautiful woman is also like constantly holding a trophy that says

" I've conquered her she is mine and nobody else's"

thats the way i see it