Reading post after post here, it's becoming obvious that most people nowadays have no idea what a real man is. (I'm gonna use "DJ" and "man" interchangable, they're the same thing. You can't be a real man without being a DJ, and you can't be a DJ without being a real man)
They seem to have this idea that a real man (DJ) is someone who finds women, and treats 'em like the crap from the bottom of their shoes. Nothing could be further from the truth. "But Latte!" you say, "I have more girls than I know what to do with, you're full of it!" News flash, Columbo...there's always someone more desperate than you are stupid. Games only work on emotionally damaged little girls...and if that's what you're after, congrats. You bagged yourself a disturbed chick. Good job, Stud. It speaks volumes for your technique when you're able to bang little girls with warped senses of self-esteem.
A REAL DJ doesn't have to play these stupid middle school mind games with girls. Sure, he uses kino, he's C+F, he teases them...these are all well and good. But these aren't games. They're who he is. But just like ice cream, cologne, sunshine, or whatever else, too much of a good thing is bad for you. When you take something to an extreme, it only means one thing...you're covering up for something you don't have. When you're too ****y, it doesn't come off as suave. It comes off as insecurity.And women aren't stupid, they can smell that a mile away. Women are attracted by the MAN, not the front he puts up. Piss and moan all you want, but the majority of people here are AFC's dressed up in their very best DJ clothing. They learn a few techniques, and bag a few girls who are stupid enough to fall for the crap they dish out, and suddenly they're Don Juan incarnate. Attracting girls with games is no different than attracting them with money, or with a nice car, or with x, y, or z. Point of the matter is, they're not attracted to YOU. You have nothing that they want, and they're gonna find that out sooner or later. They're attracted to their perception of you. And when that changes, and it WILL, they're gone.
Now, all of you know that I'm one of the most anti-AFC guys around. If you sit around and cater to girls, you're not worthy to be called a man. If you wait on them hand and foot, you need to cut off your balls and give them to someone who can use them...because you're sure not. But being a DJ isn't about playing games. It's not about methods and techniques. It's about ONE thing, and one thing only. Knowing that YOU'RE the man.
See that HB9 over there? Smile in her direction. When she comes over, ask for her number. Call her when you feel like it. You'll know when the right time is. Take her out where you want to take her out to. If you want to go out again, call her when you feel like it, and ask her out. The common denominator here is this; YOU. YOU'RE the man. You do things when you see it fit to do them. You don't need to play mind games. A real man can't be resisted. Take off your DJ clothes, stop playing games, and be a person who gets what he wants without even having to try; a real MAN.
They seem to have this idea that a real man (DJ) is someone who finds women, and treats 'em like the crap from the bottom of their shoes. Nothing could be further from the truth. "But Latte!" you say, "I have more girls than I know what to do with, you're full of it!" News flash, Columbo...there's always someone more desperate than you are stupid. Games only work on emotionally damaged little girls...and if that's what you're after, congrats. You bagged yourself a disturbed chick. Good job, Stud. It speaks volumes for your technique when you're able to bang little girls with warped senses of self-esteem.
A REAL DJ doesn't have to play these stupid middle school mind games with girls. Sure, he uses kino, he's C+F, he teases them...these are all well and good. But these aren't games. They're who he is. But just like ice cream, cologne, sunshine, or whatever else, too much of a good thing is bad for you. When you take something to an extreme, it only means one thing...you're covering up for something you don't have. When you're too ****y, it doesn't come off as suave. It comes off as insecurity.And women aren't stupid, they can smell that a mile away. Women are attracted by the MAN, not the front he puts up. Piss and moan all you want, but the majority of people here are AFC's dressed up in their very best DJ clothing. They learn a few techniques, and bag a few girls who are stupid enough to fall for the crap they dish out, and suddenly they're Don Juan incarnate. Attracting girls with games is no different than attracting them with money, or with a nice car, or with x, y, or z. Point of the matter is, they're not attracted to YOU. You have nothing that they want, and they're gonna find that out sooner or later. They're attracted to their perception of you. And when that changes, and it WILL, they're gone.
Now, all of you know that I'm one of the most anti-AFC guys around. If you sit around and cater to girls, you're not worthy to be called a man. If you wait on them hand and foot, you need to cut off your balls and give them to someone who can use them...because you're sure not. But being a DJ isn't about playing games. It's not about methods and techniques. It's about ONE thing, and one thing only. Knowing that YOU'RE the man.
See that HB9 over there? Smile in her direction. When she comes over, ask for her number. Call her when you feel like it. You'll know when the right time is. Take her out where you want to take her out to. If you want to go out again, call her when you feel like it, and ask her out. The common denominator here is this; YOU. YOU'RE the man. You do things when you see it fit to do them. You don't need to play mind games. A real man can't be resisted. Take off your DJ clothes, stop playing games, and be a person who gets what he wants without even having to try; a real MAN.
