"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's a real beauty for you physically?

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What is real beauty for you physically?

They have to be sexy?

Cute?

Gorgeous?

Look like a model?

Look like a celebrity?

An anime chick?

HB's?


For me the real beauty of women is how she present herself as a person, how she dress, how she move, and how she talk to you as a person.

Example is she's not that cute or hot but she dress nicely and presentable for me they are already beautiful. If she moves nicely that's considered beauty for me.

Last if a girl is good at conversation if something good comes out in her mouth and have a sense that's a beauty for me too. Either conversation skills is not that physical but having a good communication skills associated in having a good looks also so considered it as part of overall beauty.

So the real beauty for me is if she present herself well either she's not that hot or cute as long she knows how to carry herself well in front of you.

Guys I hope you find it useful to find a right mate for you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Feminine.

Jet black, flat ironed hair.

hot with very little makeup on (and looks fine without it)

toned legs, with a slight tan

c-cups

cute face
 

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Weight wise, be inbetween average and extreme, ie. in between normal and overweight or normal and underweight.

I like a girl to have a bit of meat on her, especially her legs.

Long hair, cute face

Karen Gillan and Evanna Lynch are really hot
 

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I like classy, sweet, nice girls that are very presentable, skinny, dress fashionable and not bar-slutty. Think Natalie Portman, Jessica Alba
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That organny thinggy in between the ears, under the hair, and above the chest (YES there is something above those beauties :crackup: )
With that thing going for them, my beauty will BE feminine in the purest sense, BE a supermodel, and BE everything I am looking for, right now at least. If her frame doesn't change over the years too drastically, I'll put a ring on that finger...minus the marriage certificate. I don't believe in institutionalized marriage, it costs too much. Just ask a divorced man.
 

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Real beauty, to me, is the woman who can give me a boner. Everything else you guys mention like how she dresses or how she converses will determine how well I'll get along with her after the said boner is satisfied.
 

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Like Eternal_water said I I too like a girl with some meat on her. Not overweight though. She has to have an ass and smooth legs. I like my girls with brown or black hair. Not a huge fan of blondes, but I'd date them.
 
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I don't have a type or a criteria of what is real beauty to me, because beauty comes in all forms. If I was to focus on just one particular type or a small criteria list I might well be missing out on someone and nobody likes a missed opportunity.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Strong legs with a nice, curvy bod. That's just me :)

The face has to be acceptable. She has to smile or else she will start developing saggage real early. Hate it when there are those girls who NEVER smile.
 

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Good round ass, legs and hips... OHH! And she gotta have those venus/lower back dimples. She can have no boobs for all i care. And skinny... The doc said a high dose of cholesterol can kill me.
 

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5'9, Slim, Light Skinned

I fall in love everytime!
 

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The Bat said:
Real beauty, to me, is the woman who can give me a boner. Everything else you guys mention like how she dresses or how she converses will determine how well I'll get along with her after the said boner is satisfied.
This made me lol but I guess this covers a lot of men. Everybody has their preferences on what they find physically attractive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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San Jose California said:
wow, none of those girls are hot. why are so many people on these forums like "look at these girls they're hot" and then they're ugly, I had a feeling the girls in these links would be ugly based on the previous patterns
I was wondering how long it would take someone to say that, you'd bang them If you could. You're saying otherwise to imply you have higher standards than you do.
 

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Eternal_water said:
I was wondering how long it would take someone to say that, you'd bang them If you could. You're saying otherwise to imply you have higher standards than you do.
But don't we all have different preferences? Men and women?
 

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Well, i have to agree with truthhunter101 . The personality is what makes girl attractive: The way she dresses, the way she moves, talks, and expreses her emotions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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