"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's a good way to learn how to dance?

ChrizZ

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...other than taking dance classes?

I wanna learn some fly dance moves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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1. Take some dance classes.

2. Get a friend to teach you.

3. Get really drunk. You'll think you've got awesome moves.



Teaching yourself rarely works. Forget books, tapes, and videos. Not the same thing.

Ordered by effectiveness.
 

Scars

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I try to watch Chris Brown and mimick some of his moves, but it really does take skill. You are better off just getting lessons, but if not try and have someone who's an alright dancer to teach you a few things. Maybe one of your lady friends?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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scottfall

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I think u just have to do it man. Ide say you should go out to some club your never going to go to again and just try to feel the beats.
 
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