"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what's a good way of getting this out of her?

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stoner1129

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well some girl in my english class told me on wednesday that she knows some cheerleader who likes. well of course i asked her just a couple of times i didn't want to seem needy or needy at all and yeah she wouldn't tell me anything. so what i'm wondering is just how can i get it out of her without seeming needy or pathetic or whatever else?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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play little games with her.
have fun with it, and don't sound too serious.
 
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She's getting off on the attention you're giving her by asking all the time.

Turn it round "I'm sure she'll let me know herself soon enough", and she'll follow you.
 
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