"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Whats a good transition???

ManOMan

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DAMN!! In the past 2 months, I have went clubbing.

I found a cool technique that I cant seem to expand on.

What I do, is , as a girl is walking by, I sort of block them (not like a football offensive or anything) just enough so that they have to stop, then say anything that pops up in my head , in a wacky/overly friendly Ashton Kutchner type of voice, I say"Hey Gorgeous!!"

"Hey YOUUU!"

But I do it in a way like I know them,

well the past 2 months, 4 women , just stopped, kissed me on the lips, then just kept walking

WTF!!???

How do I transition this from the kiss, to meeting them and talking to them??

I dont want to hound them down because that would seem weird, eh?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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uniassign

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What I do, is , as a girl is walking by, I sort of block them (not like a football offensive or anything) just enough so that they have to stop, then say anything that pops up in my head , in a wacky/overly friendly Ashton Kutchner type of voice, I say"Hey Gorgeous!!"

Personally I don't hit on moving targets. The chicks have somewhere to go. They might really like you, but are busting to go to the toilet. They might be pre-occupied with finding their friends, or they are leaving.

Bottom line is that they have somewhere to get to, and YOU are stopping them from getting there.

My suggestion to you is to hit on stationary sets instead.

well the past 2 months, 4 women , just stopped, kissed me on the lips, then just kept walking

WTF!!???


They do that to get rid of you. Shock and awe. Kind of like giving a guy a fake number to get rid of him.

How do I transition this from the kiss, to meeting them and talking to them??

Find them later on, and tell them what a bad kisser she is.
 

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does that make sense on ANY level?

Since when do girls kiss guys to get rid of them?

I think its pretty bold for women to take that big step and just kiss a stranger on the lips

I mean for crying out loud, you have guys on here posting "WHen/How should I kiss her??"

I may be wrong, but some random girl kissing you is DEFINITELY a sign of Interest

and its not like I block there path so they cant get away or anything

and to boot, this has happened to me 4 times in the 8 times I have gone out
 

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does that make sense on ANY level?

yeah


I may be wrong, but some random girl kissing you is DEFINITELY a sign of Interest


I think you're wrong. If she's totally random then how in the world can she have a chance to be interested in you?

More likely than not they're doing that because making you nuts is a nice power play and ego stroke for them (which is what most club girls are after). Apparently, it works like a charm for them with you.

You could always try talking to them, but If they were really interested, they probably wouldn't run away so quick.
 
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