Naughty Ninja
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Bluntmaster said:
Tell her you've installed it and your Yahoo IM is "I've already got your number toots!"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What's a good reply to "You are luck I'm giving you my #"
- Thread starter Bluntmaster
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Tell her you've installed it and your Yahoo IM is "I've already got your number toots!"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Naughty Ninja said:
WTF? I'm not using that.
Naughty Ninja
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Are you talking to this girl on P.O.F? MAybe I misread the thread. Did you get her number first? And is she afterwards talking about you adding Yahoo Im?
Scars
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The whole "..i like that." only confirms that she is getting a kick out of toying with you. Any ****y/funny lines she would had easily dodged because they are expected. To her, you are just another guy trying to hit on her. She is running you through a punch of hoops, and has probably heard it all. I don't think the standardized formula will work with this chick, because she is expecting it. You said this girl has been short from the get go right? I just don't think this girl has a sense of humor to begin with. I do believe it's still salvageable, she did offer you to text her. You pretty much have to do a power move involving getting a strong emotional reaction out of her. Essentially, a massive push/pull. This girl seems like you could be as rude as you want to her, but she would still keep reply back because she is enjoying it. Use it to your advantage. Right now you need to change her emotional state. Go from severely pissing her off to suddenly becoming sexual. Throw a baby, or babe at her. It will catch her by surprise. This girl wants you to serve her sh!t right back to her. She probably has some deep seeded post traumatic problems. Probably was abused, or neglected and needs a severe a$$h0le to get her juices going. These are essentially the types of girls that you get into the hugest argument with then you throw them up against a wall and start making out with them. They dig sh!t like that.
That's just my perspective. But then again it seems like my advice has been steering you wrong.
In any case.. good luck. I'm going to bed.
-Scars
That's just my perspective. But then again it seems like my advice has been steering you wrong.
In any case.. good luck. I'm going to bed.
-Scars
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Naughty Ninja said:
No, I met her on craigslist. She asked if I want to chat. I gave her my email and she added me to yahoo, but she has never been on it like she says. She has only told me the area she lives and where she works. That's all I know about her.
Scars said:
Very Interesting. Please type me up something good to say tomorrow, I suck at this stuff. Twice now she has told me to text her but I haven't done it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Naughty Ninja
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that's what I'm talking about. A girl on the net gets wise with me I throw it right back and don't care if I get her number. If Bluntmaster got it already why would you even entertain Yahoo IM? I'd just tell her my response and let her enjoy it! "My Yahoo IM is I'vealreadygotyournumberandyouLOVEittoots!"Scars said:
You've got to push her buttons back. Who cares what some broad on the net thinks?
"Hopefully you'll be lucky enough for me to use it."
That's the first thing that came to mind. Can probably use a bit more spice.
EDIT: Note to self, read the whole thread before posting next time. kyokon already got that one, heh.
That's the first thing that came to mind. Can probably use a bit more spice.
EDIT: Note to self, read the whole thread before posting next time. kyokon already got that one, heh.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
+1bam bam said:
no reactive, not even responding is probably best to this
"yeh, anyway....."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Razor Sharp
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I've dealt with this many times, mostly because I get off on approaching girls who are admittedly out of my league looks-wise. I've tried being c*cky, neg-hitting and all the typical PUA sh*t. By far the response that has worked the best is to completely re-frame it so we are on equal footing and she admires my perspective.
Your typical c*cky response will just put you into a one-up dynamic where she is framed as an adversary. That can be fun but I don't find it particularly effective in terms of closing the deal.
The real trick to putting women into their place is not playing the game on their terms, switching up the context in ways they did not expect and using THAT to lead the tone of the interaction. Think about it, does a general let himself be challenged by a soldier? The very thought is laughable. Furthermore, a soldier wont respect a superior who stoops to his level.
Personally I get MUCH better results from girls who look up to me, than the ones who think they can out-fox me.
Your typical c*cky response will just put you into a one-up dynamic where she is framed as an adversary. That can be fun but I don't find it particularly effective in terms of closing the deal.
The real trick to putting women into their place is not playing the game on their terms, switching up the context in ways they did not expect and using THAT to lead the tone of the interaction. Think about it, does a general let himself be challenged by a soldier? The very thought is laughable. Furthermore, a soldier wont respect a superior who stoops to his level.
Personally I get MUCH better results from girls who look up to me, than the ones who think they can out-fox me.
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id just say
"im always lucky" and then wink or smile
"im always lucky" and then wink or smile
Atom Smasher
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"You'll be lucky if I call you".
Maxfarsigth
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HB: You are lucky to have my #
Max: Hey! The only lucky person around might be you if I happen to call you.
Hummmm.... In spanish sounds more C&F......
Max: Hey! The only lucky person around might be you if I happen to call you.
Hummmm.... In spanish sounds more C&F......
5string
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Yep, or, "if you're really lucky, I might call you".kyokon said:"well if you are lucky, I might even use it"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kingsam
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exactly the route that RSD has... look them up you may likeRazor Sharp said:
Bluntmaster
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Come on guys, you are slacking hardcore. Where is my reply to her latest reply?
She said:
She said:
Come on let's hear some ideas. I still haven't texted her or IM'd her.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.