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What's a good reply to "You are luck I'm giving you my #"

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What's a good reply if a girl says "You are lucky to have my #" and then gives you the #.

I'm tempted to just throw the # away after her little remark.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aloofness.

"Why am I lucky?"

Let her talk about herself a bit more. Then it gives you more opportunities/criteria to properly lay down a neg or change the frame to where she begins qualifying herself to you.

Or if worse comes to worse, leave her a smart remark about her attitude and trash the number. She'll love that.
 

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Scars said:
Aloofness.

"Why am I lucky?"

Let her talk about herself a bit more. Then it gives you more opportunities/criteria to properly lay down a neg or change the frame to where she begins qualifying herself to you.

Or if worse comes to worse, leave her a smart remark about her attitude and trash the number. She'll love that.

Thanks, I'll try out "Why am I lucky". I'll post her response when it comes.
 

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My reply, with a smirk, " Hmm, I was thinking that you were the lucky one to have me ask.."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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say what? let hear repeat herself... then say pardon me... then tell her she's mumbling... LOL she's gonna feel stupid saying that three times...
 

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What i usually do is I pick and choose what I respond to.. no need to give a reaction to everything a person says even a women.. just continue on your train of thought and dont worry...
 

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How about: "You're lucky I dont have an imagination to give you a good comeback!"
 

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My response to "You are lucky to have my phone number" would be: "Why? Did you pop that gem from your lil 'fortune cookie' for me?" ;)
 

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Ok, I went with Scars reply and said ""Why am I lucky?"

she just replied:

"Because I don't give my personal contact number to anyone."


This is borrrrrring. What should I say now to spice this up a bit?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Either she's stuck up or you're pushing the wrong buttons here. I would avoid this ego nonsense. There's other ways to take her down a notch.

I don't see this topic going anywhere good. What is GOOD about her? I would talk more about that.
 

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Either she's stuck up or you're pushing the wrong buttons here. I would avoid this ego nonsense. There's other ways to take her down a notch.

I don't see this topic going anywhere good. What is GOOD about her? I would talk more about that.

I don't even know anything about her. She has been short in all the emails. To be honest, I'm pretty sure it's a dead end road. I'm tempted to just next her now. I don't feel like chasing a low interest chic.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
Ok, I went with Scars reply and said ""Why am I lucky?"

she just replied:

"Because I don't give my personal contact number to anyone."


This is borrrrrring. What should I say now to spice this up a bit?
"And I don't just ask any girl for her personal contact number either. So maybe YOU'RE the lucky one."

Quickly reverses the frame, and also keeps it sexual without being over done.

Essentially the same thing that was said earlier from another user, but now you are using her own words against her, and they also flow much more naturally.

I assume you can adapt accordingly.

EDIT:

Oh but wait..

If you plan on nexting her anyway, mine as well go down in style.

"Personal? Are you sure, because it feels like I'm talking to a business consultant right now."

Let her know she is being a boring b!tch.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scars said:
"And I don't just ask any girl for her personal contact number either. So maybe YOU'RE the lucky one."

Quickly reverses the frame, and also keeps it sexual without being over done.

Essentially the same thing that was said earlier from another user, but now you are using her own words against her, and they also flow much more naturally.

I assume you can adapt accordingly.
Well I used your reply (before the edit) and she just replied this:

...i like that. email is not the best way for casual communication. Yahoo messanger is not that hard at all. you just need install and easy to use. you will find convenience. i hope to see you there or you can txt me..
Her bit about Messenger is BS, because she already added me and she never comes online.
 

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Scars - I prefer the second response over the first whether he is nexting her or not. First one sounds a bit *****y.
 

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Actually, a good way to pass shyt tests like these is to agree and amplify;

"Yes!! I feel SOOO lucky! See, I've never got a girls number before, because Im such a big loser! Please forgive me if I keep hanging up whenever you answer, cuz Im so nervous around such... beauty. I gotta run. I need to write my family and tell ALL my friends!" (do this in a FUNNY way!)
 

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Bluntmaster said:
Ok, I went with Scars reply and said ""Why am I lucky?"

she just replied:

"Because I don't give my personal contact number to anyone."


This is borrrrrring. What should I say now to spice this up a bit?

Say: I wouldn't give my personal contact number to anyone either! You're ridiculous woman! Now let's stop the nonsense!
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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