"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats a good place to live?

KillingTime

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yea, i saw the other dudes thread just like this one but he didnt get too specific, im planning on moving too (from TX right now)so i figured id make my own thread, maybe someone can point me in the right direction

I need a place with very low humidity, this is extremely important. I don't like heat, Id rather have fall type weather BUT i can prolly deal with it as long as its not humid.

Im not a big fan of "culture-y" stuff or museums or that type of thing, I like big malls and big modern looking buildings and flashy things. I couldn't survive in a small, old-west type setting... i like big modern cities that everyone knows about and get all kinds of attention. (Not as much as NYC though... I mean, a tree here and there is nice too)


Thats about it really, aside from that a low cost of living is always a plus... cleanliness is always good too.
Cali is out for now unfortunately, can't afford it but maybe later on.
Ive been looking at Denver and Vegas.... Denvers climate is PERFECT for me but the city life seems kind of overshadowed, all I hear about is hiking and the like or the "LoDo" area.
Vegas is Vegas, what can I say it sounds awesome, the summers are brutal though but I guess being from TX I wouldn't notice much of a change, at least they don't have the sufficating humidity that we've got down here.

Ive thought about Chicago, Philly and Minneapolis too, I can stand the cold no prob but I hear the winters can get to be a real hassle after a few years.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BootsOfEscaping

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Your right, I didn't get too specific. Whatever you do DO NOT use the "best places to live" guides online, they are total BS. I live in the currently rated "best place to live in the US" and it SUCKS!!

I want somewhere that doesn't make me feel like I am in Mexico!!
 

KillingTime

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True that, tried a few of those a while back... i was like WTF?? San Jose was the best place
 

DrMetallica

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Flagstaff, Arziona
San Fransisco, California
Salt Lake City, Utah
Denver, Colorado
Santa Fe, New Mexico
Reno, Nevada
Los Angeles, California
 

Giovanni Casanova

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DETROIT!!

It's nicer than it gets credit for. Lots of nice neighborhoods, great buildings, big malls, everything you could want. And lovely Michigan weather (sort-of joking, sort-of not).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oxide

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NOT MINNESOTA during the winter.

It is too hot in the summer, it is too cold in the winter.. we get no rest here. Not many blacks/mexicans however, comparing with southern states.

Now if i am looking for a city with great YET not criminal nightlife. Where i can go out at night and feel safe in the downtown. Where i can wear no coats in the winter, where would is a place like that?
 

mcarioca

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Rio de Janeiro, Brasil

Nice weather year round, beutifull women, beaches.

People say that a true carioca loves
women, futebol (soccer), beer, cars. Not necessary in that order.
 

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Originally posted by DrMetallica
Yeah f*ck that. I saw City of God.
Do you really think that Rio is only that movie?

Every city has its problems, but Rio is still a nice place to live.

This weekend was awesome 38 degrees celcius, beaches full, women, a nice cold beer at the beach and enjoy a day with friends.

as we Cariocas (those who are born in Rio)
CIDADE MARAVILHOSA wich means MARVELOUS CITY!

I garantee that if you ever visit Rio, you´ll love it!
 

BootsOfEscaping

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I used to live in Tampa which has pretty good nightlife(Ybor city) and TONS of very hot girls but I was there for over a decade. I got sick of the place. I may move back to Florida though, perhaps Melbourne, I don't know really. Sarasota is nice but not much going on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julian

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If i had a choice id move to LA and become a porn director king pin.
 

BootsOfEscaping

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LA is a cesspool. You might as well move to Tijuanna.
 

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Indy....home of the pacers who kick pistons a$$. And snow stroms where people get stuck in their car and have to go to a shelter for christmas.
 
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