"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's a good formula for Good story telling?

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This could be not just for getting women, but for all sorts of people your trying to leave a good impression on. What's a good formula to make an intriguing story telling to capture a person or audience imagination and leave them slightly curious and wanting to hear more? What works for you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The story needs some drama, i.e. something gossip worthy.

A “you can’t make this stuff up” type of story.
Life. Gotta be out there living and have lived a wild life. It makes your story authentic and the more you been through the more got to say.

If you combine that with being well read and well informed, you'll never run out shyte to say. And ofcourse like Chopin once said " the notes you DON'T play matter the most" aka silence can also be a tool in the conversational belt
 

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Watch the people who go on those late night shows and how they interact with the hose and tell whatever story they tell.

Essentially you follow the way they do it because it's been perfected over time by their agents and scripters, etc...

No need to reinvent the wheel, just use the same principles they do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Some comedians have a story teller style. Ali Siddiq has some great stories about being a drug dealer and then later a prison inmate.

 

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I can give my opinion on this.
In Italy, people are often gossipy.
They don't just talk badly about others, even if that's what they're talking about.

So they'll always talk about events, what happened to others, etc.
Let's say that in Italy the problem is the opposite.
Here, people are so chatty that you have to develop skills to not say too much about yourself, otherwise the others, the malicious ones, will use them against you as soon as you leave.

There are men with such a long tongue that it feels like you're talking to women.

But... apparently women adore these men... and they can't miss every gossip they have about others... Except about themselves.

I've never seen men like these make fun of themselves or laugh at themselves every now and then, which is essential.

So how do you create good storytelling?
Come Italy to learn :)
 
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A “you can’t make this stuff up” type of story.

I gotta say one of Mystery's stories about a cat fight takes the cake here:
They were fighting over this guy. I talked to him afterward. His name was Glen, That's a deal-breaker name. Glen. So they were pulling each other's hair and one of the girls' boobs pops out, Normally I'm all for seeing a ripe one, but this was a "saggy-baggy booby"... you know, from National Geographic.
I couldn't find the whole story; this is all the Interwebs seem to remember of it.

Of course you gotta be able to deliver it properly.
 
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