Anyone know what blazers are good to get that does not cost that much money? I have a gap one and it was under 100 dollars and it is navy. I also see a gap blazer on the site that is black which i want to buy but i do not know what velvet feels like. How does velvet feel? Any suggestions would be great.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I have two Kenneth Cole wool blazers which I wear damn near every day of the year. Even in the thousand degree hell that's Florida they're comfortable.
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I'd wear blazers, but it's damn near impossible to find one that doesn't look too long on me (I'm 5'8). It sucks, cuz I otherwise love blazers.
Charm&Style
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i have a plum color calvin klein velvet jacket...got it at macys for under 100 bucks anyways its real chill especially since it used to be old school so it gets heads turnin and convos startin...other than that its juss like anyother blazer (temperture wise).
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I think one of the criteria was something that didn't cost much; although, KC is the bomb if it's in your budget.KarmaSutra said:
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Luckily there is a KC outlet store in Ellington which I frequent. Each ran me only $230. Not too much to spend seen as how I wear the fvck out of 'em and look fvcking sharp to boot!
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warrior1 said:
Quality velvet resembles warm pvssy. It grips you like a warm handshake.
cool. I am looking at this blazer on banana republic
http://www.bananarepublic.com/browse/product.do?pid=4169300024002&cid=14845
this was the gap velvet i was going to get
http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=9701&pid=378713
I know the banana republic cost more than twice as much. Is the texture of it that much better than say this gap one?
http://www.bananarepublic.com/browse/product.do?pid=4169300024002&cid=14845
this was the gap velvet i was going to get
http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=9701&pid=378713
I know the banana republic cost more than twice as much. Is the texture of it that much better than say this gap one?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.