"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You also stated elsewhere that you think it's wrong to make statements and it's better to ask questions. Then you said how great the Juggler was.

The Juggler method actually says that 90/10 rule is good and that you should make statements instead of questions. There was also no campas pickup thing in your blog, I don't know if you just said that to advertise.
I answered your questions via PM, but....

Questions and statements both have their value.

It is your job as a conversationalist to calibrate and choose wich one is the right choice at the right time.

The Juggler Method has been revised since Juggler's first go-round in the community and he has discarded his 90/10 rule. His new ebook explains his revised method.

The post in my blog that I was referring to is called "The value of questions". It is not explicitly about "campus pickup" but is relevant to the topic we're discussing.

Why are you being so confrontational?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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