"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's a deal breaker/ red flag(s) for you?

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1. Has children/married before
2. Too many guy friends/satellite guys that have orbited her for years and continue to do so
3. Constant complaining about her boss/job...never doing anything about it
4. Travel *****. Has lived in too many different places. Rootless gypsy syndrome.
5. I don't mind if they're liberal...but no activist types.
6. No height nazi's (not that they'd accept my 5'10 self anyway, but **** those "I'm 5'5 and like heels and you must be at least 4 inches taller than me in heels lol so 6 feet and up only plz" **** off ****
7. Actresses or performing artists of any type.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone just said pretty much everything as off now.

But I guess the major red flags if you wish to get on a LTR with a chick is

- Has Kids
- Has Tattoos
- Has little to no (girl) friends / Too many guy friends
- Lived in too many different places (Never settled)

These are the ones that scream H0E out loud, and only the naive/inexperienced can't see!

But, if you are planning on Smash and Dash, the only real red flag is visible poor hygiene.
 

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I have worked my way up to become successful so I am not going to get into an LTR with a girl that is broke. That and chances are, from my experience, broke girls usually have a string of someone pissed off, aggressive, and violent (gang related) exes who will make your lives hell.
 

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By the way, excellent blog of your's Zarky.

Just read the "MRAs, PUAhaters, MGTOWs, and other red-pill failures" !!!

Excellent post. I found that the most visible thing laying around the "Manosphere" is bitterness!

Must read for the noobs, in order to open their eyes to the real truth. Women are human/animals just like us.

As someone eloquently put somewhere, you can't leave a dog to watch a steak, and hate it for eating. You can't hate women nature. Their heads work in different fashion then ours, so let's use it to our favour!

Brilliant man!
 
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