"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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whatchu guys think about eye contact?

proteinshake

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its a given that eye contact is good and i maintain it most of the time with whoever i talk to but im curious about what some of u older more experienced guys have to say about it. alot of times when i see a girl check me out i will try to make eye contact with her and smile at her but usually when we meet eyes the girl will look down or away? also how long should i try to maintain eye contact with a complete stranger like this? i usualy will only approach the girl if i see her look back and intentionaly smile but maybe im passing alot of girls up? also if im trying to get a girls attention is it smart to try to make eye contact and let her see me check her out?.... this is probably the weakest part of my game because i have not been taught much about what to do with the eyes and body launguage in these situations. I appreciate anyhelp u guys can give me, thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ojete

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First, if she looks down after making eye contact with you, she's interested.

Second, there are 40 more ways of showing you interest, not only eye contact.

Learn more about mating body language and you will get it.

Good luck
 

Ace of Flames

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Looking down = Submission. If a girl was looking at you and you caught her glance and then she looks down, she was probably checking you out, and you should go for it. If she looks off to the side, she was probably just looking around.

I'd suggest you maintain contact for as long as it takes. But don't just stare at her, that's scary. After a few seconds, smile! Show her you're friendly. If she smiles back, get your butt over there!
 

the pokemaster

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i find its best that as soon as you make eye contact, go in for the kill.

LOL, you ever played Pokemon? well you have to go on like a poketrainer, if one makes contact with you for just a little bit, they'll approach to battle.

in your case approach them to talk. its best if you don't mention pokemon the first time you see them lol:D
 

KoalaKing

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Ace of Flames said:
Looking down = Submission. If a girl was looking at you and you caught her glance and then she looks down, she was probably checking you out, and you should go for it. If she looks off to the side, she was probably just looking around.

I'd suggest you maintain contact for as long as it takes. But don't just stare at her, that's scary. After a few seconds, smile! Show her you're friendly. If she smiles back, get your butt over there!
I have always used eye contact with the hot babes that I see and it has worked very well for me.
I didn't know that if a girl looks down that she is interested, I will keep this in mind during my future sarging, you learn something new everyday, thankyou for this advice. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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