"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What you want - How to step into a relationship or not to.

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RedKnight04

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Okay.

I don't want to bring up something everyone allready knows but I want to share something that has worked for me so far with Relationships.

When I want a relationship - doesn't have to be longterm - I call more than once a week. If not, I call only once ONLY ONCE a week. If she calls me I excuse myself and tell her I'm busy.

That also goes for seeing each other only once a week.

Women think you want them in a relationship manner when you call more than once... ITs like they have a mechanism to know when you are shooting for a relationship or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I forgot to include my signature which contains probably the best quotes I've come across that fit me - just never realized it was off.
 
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When a girl contacts you more than twice a week (call/email/IM) to see "how you're doing" - she wants to have some sort of relationship. Not sure if it's any truth to that. Yeah but I like your rule about calling just once a week, and I only do once a week AFTER the girl has called me once.
 
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