"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NYCJoey22

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This is really strictly for clubs/bars girls and ONLY you start a little convo with the girl within 3 mins

Guy : "So what are you doing later tonight"
Girl: "Nothing"
Guy: "How about we make some plans?"
Girl: "what plans?"
Guy: " How about you take me home tonight?"(or if you have your own place) "You can chill with me at my place for the night"


I stress... this is ONLY you feel you have a strong non-verbal communication(body language) with the chick and shes feeling you... i'd say this within 3 mins.. cuz you wont manage to get a full blown convo with a girl at a club/bar setting.. you might as well be direct with the chick. It's not like you expect a long term relationship from that type of atmosphere. I'm going to test this out next week.

Also if she does say that she has plans... you can be like "damn I'd love to take you home... maybe we can exchange phone numbers and hangout another night"... that shows you're not desperate but you are opening the door for a date. It doesn't have to end the night in sex but you'd have a better chance at it depending on the date because the girl is willing to go out with you. I just came up with this.. you guys can critique it but I think its something that can be effective.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sounds like a variation of the apocalypse opener. ya. well try and see.
 

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ill give it a try... whats the worst that can happen? Rejection?

oh no im scared of that, someone else have a go please! :crackup:
 
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