"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What you see in porn isn't how real life works.

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You often hear phrases like "Porn is not real life" when talking specifically about how people have sex.

After having had experiences with at least a few women, I can tell you that sex, in some ways, it's similar to what you see in a porn video. But, we should talk about "which" video in particular.
I mean, just go to the amateur category of any porn site and watch the videos of couoples that do sex.
Those are closest thing you can find in reality.

I mean, they're basically video recordings of couples having sex and their related kinks/fetishes.
So the phrase that "porn isn't reality" is really bull****. Actually, it is; you just need to watch the right videos.

I've learned a lot from porn (amateur and human), which I've then applied to my real-life experience, and also helped women that weren't convinced that those things would actually make them enjoy sex a bit.

I'm curious to know what did works for you guys, I'm pretty sure you have so many experience you didn't need that, but I actually still use porn (the good videos) as a tool to find new things i would enjoy
(For example, I discovered I do enjoy so much having sex with women while they wear heels, that drives me crazy)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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