"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What you see in porn isn't how real life works.

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You often hear phrases like "Porn is not real life" when talking specifically about how people have sex.

After having had experiences with at least a few women, I can tell you that sex, in some ways, it's similar to what you see in a porn video. But, we should talk about "which" video in particular.
I mean, just go to the amateur category of any porn site and watch the videos of couoples that do sex.
Those are closest thing you can find in reality.

I mean, they're basically video recordings of couples having sex and their related kinks/fetishes.
So the phrase that "porn isn't reality" is really bull****. Actually, it is; you just need to watch the right videos.

I've learned a lot from porn (amateur and human), which I've then applied to my real-life experience, and also helped women that weren't convinced that those things would actually make them enjoy sex a bit.

I'm curious to know what did works for you guys, I'm pretty sure you have so many experience you didn't need that, but I actually still use porn (the good videos) as a tool to find new things i would enjoy
(For example, I discovered I do enjoy so much having sex with women while they wear heels, that drives me crazy)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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