What you guys think of my game?

[fukuy]

Here's my scenario guys :
I'm kinda falling for this chick at work. Guys i know it 's bad but just cant help myself. She's such a damn fine chick and the worst thing is she's been giving me lots of high signals of interest like constantly touching me, smiling and EC with me. And that really turns me on. She was even flirting with me right in front of her boyfriend. ( Yes, she 's taken ) I like her but just dont show much sign of interests even though she knows that i like her.
Now the thing is her shift always ends before mine so i actually never have a chance to ask her out. So last weekend, after getting home from work, i sent her an email asking if she has anything to do on that weekend and if she wanna join me for a coffee break. Havent heard from her since then.
So what you guys think of my story? Is she interested in me or not? if yes, then why didnt she reply my invitation? Does she sound like an Attention *** ?Is emailing a weak tool in asking a girl out? I just dont have her number and dont wanna go through our mutual friends to get it. Any suggestion of how to steal this chick from her boyfriend?
I mean i will defintely play it cool and see how things evolve between us even though i like this girl alot.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by fukuy
So what you guys think of my story?

I really liked it.

Originally posted by fukuy
Is she interested in me or not?

Yes, she's interested in receiving attention from you to boost her ego.

Originally posted by fukuy
if yes, then why didnt she reply my invitation?

Short Answer: She has a boyfriend. Long Answer: She didn't need to because IF you have the balls to question her, she can make up a really crappy excuse and you'll beleive it and continue stroking her ego.

Originally posted by fukuy
Does she sound like an Attention *** ?

Yes.

Originally posted by fukuy
Is emailing a weak tool in asking a girl out?

I've never used it to set a date with a girl. But I don't think its used much throughout Australia. I may be wrong. But I don't know of anyone who emails others for chatting purposes.

Originally posted by fukuy
I just dont have her number and dont wanna go through our mutual friends to get it. Any suggestion of how to steal this chick from her boyfriend?

I don't think you should be trying to steal her from her boyfriend. Not only is it a dog act, do you want a girl who can be wooed away from an outsider?
But it is your decision. If you want to steal her over you've got alot of work to do.
She MUST see you as desirerable to other girls.
She MUST see you as A HELL'UVA lot of fun.
She MUST see you as a step up from her current boyfriend.

But going by your post. You have no chance of pulling any of that off.

I think you need to meet more girls and you'll quickly realise this girl isn't quite what you beleive she is.

My advice.

As soon as you have some spare time, approach and have a 10 minute + conversation with 10 or more girls who look as good as this one, or better.

 

[milkman]

Re: Re: What you guys think of my game?

Originally posted by quest
As soon as you have some spare time, approach and have a 10 minute + conversation with 10 or more girls who look as good as this one, or better.

Yes, approach at least one other really good looking girl. If it doesn´t work out, then approach another one unless you have some iron in the fire.


And with this other girl: If it´s really your decision to steal her away from her bf, you can still go for it.

But as quest already mentioned, in this case you will have to give her experiences in your presence she has not with her bf and she need to feel that you two are intended for each other.

 

[Marlimus]

Do not **** where you eat.
In this day and age, if you so much as look at a woman the wrong way, she could claim sexual harrassment.

Nowadays, many of the guys who either get bad reps or actually get sued aren't necessarily the ones going around grabbing ass. Also, what happens if things don't work out? There will be a weird vibe.

There are at least 3,000,000,000 women on the face of the earth. Find another one.