"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"What you feel, she feels"

Solomon

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Do any of you buy into this concept?
What you feel the girl feels?
durning an interaction when you first meet her?
I personally can attest that some of my best interactions (sets) with women have been when I feel super good/high energy and it's like a catchy aura which women can feel and respond to in a postive manner.I'm not talking about "dancing monkey" but a geninue state were energy is literally emnating from you. Typically in a state like this it doesn't matter what you say, because your outside your head attraction can be instant to a point where you and the girl know you are attracted to each other and don't have to say a word(I.e. Instant makeout without barley saying any words)

I think Adnois From Rsd did a good job describing this state,

I'm really digging this girl. She's fun to talk to. I go for her number, she blushes and tells me she has a boyfriend. I somehow don't feel phased. ****, i want to feel like this all the time. The only way i can describe this state that i get in is that i feel calm and very happy, and it's coming from within, and funny enough, when i feel like this is when i've had the best interactions with girls. This is not only in terms of results (like getting a makeout in daygame which i thought was impossible) but also in the colossal change in how i feel about my interactions. I feel good now. The girl feels what i feel and she cant help but feel attracted. What i do notice is that this great state goes away after a while as i start getting in to the "i have to approach more girls" mindset. I may still be in an okay state but the feeling isnt the same. It's cool, i'm glad i'm at least starting to get a feel for things, itll get easier with time
^^it's like pure Ulfiltered-Confidence, anyone every experince this?

THoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I somewhat agree. I think there's another term for this called "IN THE ZONE".
When you're in the zone, everything seems perfect and in place. You have extreme confidence and have high amounts of energy. That's when it's best to approach women.
 

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Solomon said:
Do any of you buy into this concept?
What you feel the girl feels?
durning an interaction when you first meet her?
I personally can attest that some of my best interactions (sets) with women have been when I feel super good/high energy and it's like a catchy aura which women can feel and respond to in a postive manner.I'm not talking about "dancing monkey" but a geninue state were energy is literally emnating from you. Typically in a state like this it doesn't matter what you say, because your outside your head attraction can be instant to a point where you and the girl know you are attracted to each other and don't have to say a word(I.e. Instant makeout without barley saying any words)

I think Adnois From Rsd did a good job describing this state,



^^it's like pure Ulfiltered-Confidence, anyone every experince this?

THoughts?
This is one of the big secrets of seduction - I will give credit to Pook for bringing this gem to my attention.

Run with this - this single concept will take you farther than looks alone ever will - trust me on this one
 

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Yeah when you're "in the zone", as mentioned. I've been there, had great times and if I could find a way to bottle it up, I'd be rich... Oh wait, there are drugs who can give you similar effects! :D

I'd attribute the times I've been "in the zone" to a combination of things: good wine, music, dancing, anti-biotics, good night sleep, good workout... I don't think I was any more confident then than I'm normally.

Also, it can happen when you're socially dominant and "own the frame" - as some guys in the MM would say. When you're the leader, people mimic your feelings & energy level. This is how good leaders channel their energy & passion to their followers. In fact, if you're not having the dominant frame over hers, it doesn't matter if you're in the zone, she won't follow you and feel what you feel.

If you ever do partner dancing, you'll understand this concept even more.
 
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fuzzx said:
When you fart, does she not smell it... hear it's voice, feel it's presence, it's heat, sometimes even it's taste...

the proof is in the pudding. :moon:
Are you crazy??? Our bro here needs our help and this is what you give him??? :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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Solomon said:
Do any of you buy into this concept?
It's absolutely true. Some people assume it's about psychic abilities and don't believe it or bother to try. It's not, it's about women being very sensitive to how you are feeling inside. Somehow they pick up on subtle cues in your eyes as well as changes in your body language.

How do I absolutely know this is true? It's not only because I've seen its effects. I know enough about the human mind to know I could easily be fooling myself into seeing a pattern that isn't there. The reason I'm sure is because I've had it described to me by women.

I should explain why I'm so sure I trust what I've been told:
I cultivate REAL friendships with women that I don't want to have sex with and so I'm not angling to get it (winging each other or just wanting to go out and have fun without pressure). After a while, they get extremely comfortable being around a man that they can let their guard down with yet doesn't AFC into turning into her girlfriend, priest, or therapist. This is extremely useful because they'll start acting weird or mention something any time you have some AFC habits you need to work on. Plus, they're comfortable describing their inner feelings when they know you won't laugh at them or think they're crazy.

Women have many things they really want to know about how men think but they won't trust a man who's trying to get sex to be absolutely honest. So, when they want to know something I tell them fine (once in a while, I don't want to get serious & logical too much), I'll tell the absolute truth about those things ONLY if they'll match me by telling me the absolute truth about a question I have. If they balk or sound like they're trying to cover up something embarrassing I tell them I'll have to stop future information exchanges if they don't want to play this game every once in a while :up:

I've tested the turning energy up and inner-thoughts thing and they're telling me how they are feeling even though I'm not saying what I'm flipping through internally. IT IS TRUE, IF IT'S POWERFUL ENOUGH AND YOU'RE COMPLETELY FEELING IT THEY CATCH PART OF IT.

One time I was talking with my (girl)friend (at a bar, dancing was going on nearby) and I starting completely getting into a "there isn't anyone even nearly as confident as me and any girl here would like to right now start slowly taking her clothes off and move into me for a hot passionate kiss" state (full of vivid detail!) and my friend's eyes opened up really big. Then I stopped and asked her to describe what she was just feeling.

She described it like this "I started feeling a warm throbbing and like there was a huge magnet pulling me towards you and then it just sort of stopped but I can still feel it a little bit". She caught the general gist of what I was feeling. (Maybe my intense inner feeling of that caused me to display the cues she's seeing when she's undressing for a man she's about make love to? Whatever...it works!)

This sort of thing works extremely well, but not nearly as strong if she's not been made comfortable in some way. Otherwise, we could all just walk around with that sort of attitude and get laid by 20 girls a day without saying a word.

It's not a "magic pill" by any means. It's only really effective if the man is already radiating confidence and is displaying Alpha behaviors instead of AFC ones.

So, yes, I am absolutely sure this is real and does work.
 

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Hahaha

What are the irony that "Adonis" is actually one of my friends in real life. I agree with the quote though and if there was one example that defines him, this would be it. Although it currently isn't consistent due to other things he's dealing with...

BUT, when he's connected to his core he does things that make me wonder "Why doesn't he act like that 24/7". I think I actually remember that day, as I watched him makeout with some chick in like 30secs in the daytime. (She was waiting for her date who came 2mins later hahaha)

I've also seen him make a chick fall in love with him sameday, broke up with her live in BF, and then call him the next day saying he's a ******* for causing her to break up with his BF and she never wants to speak to him again.

With that said he's a special case in terms of "He wants to stuff his dik in her" if he wasn't super needy it would be highly effective because I've seen moments that made me see the GREATNESS in him.

Personally from my experience I've seen everyone guys and girls get sucked into how I'm feeling since I'm generally high on life. I've done some crazy stuff too as a result.

The way I put it "Women show a consistent reflection of conveyance of YOU." So if you got an ego an trying to keep it nice and shiny, you will see it when interacting with the women.

My advice is to always be OPEN like a book or a nerd on the stage infront of millions. Your so vulnerable to social pressure that people can see the RAWNESS of your personality. There is nothing to hide...
 
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