"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what wud u guys do here? (new girl after bad breakup)

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long story short, ive just got out of a terrible relationship last month (she cheated) so am not 100% sure what i want these days. But ive been talkin and went out 2wice with this new hb9 recently. The problem here is the new chick seems indifferent, we only talk like once a week, shes very independent. When we go out its fun, but other than that we hardly interact, no phone call etc. Shes usually up to chill all the time, but recently she gave me the whole "im busy the nex week but if somting clears up ill let u knw" (yeaahh right...). So for the DJs knw how to game the indifferent chick lemme knw wat i shud do to make her focus on me.

Ps. i kinoed her heavy but never kiss closed coz i didnt knw wat i wanted, so maybe that turned her off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She sounds like a Don Juan...

Why not take what shes doing and reverse the effects to your advantage.
Its all about apathy, she appears to have that to a tee.
 
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