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What would you think if a girl did this to you?

Elf2

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Known this girl for about a year now.

She is 3 years younger, still in high school. I am in college.

Had strong interest when first talking to girl, became too close with her and realized I was in the friend zone. Texted her about every other day for months on end. Never really got to hang out with her that much being that I am in college now.

I know I am in the friend zone. She knows that I find her attractive and that I've wanted to get with her. She tells me a lot about her personal life and as do I.

The first night home on break (haven't seen her in 6 months) she asks if I want to hang out because she "misses me and really wants to see me." I agree.

I pick her up and she's with her friend. Nothing really to do that night as it was late already, we decided to just drive around and talk.

I eventually take them to this "haunted" road where if you park your car you can supposedly here kids crying in the woods or something, I don't really know but its not important.

So as I'm driving down this road I tell them the stories I've heard about it and they start to get freaked out and scared.

The main girl that I was there to hang out with, leans on my shoulder, grabs my arm and pulls it close to her chest (as if she's scared and holding on to me for comfort) and then bites my thumb for a good 20 seconds...

I ask jokingly "Can I please have my arm back now?! hahahah" and she still holds onto it for a couple more minutes.

Now I know for a FACT and I'm almost 100% sure that this girl sees me as a friend and a friend only. And I'm fine with that as she is a good company and has other hot friends I meet.

Even though I have known her for a over a year, we've only hung out no more than 5 times, and it's been spread across that year I've known her. I've never really done any touching, flirting, or kino. So I was surprised she did that.

What would you think given this info about my situation?

Was it nothing and I'm thinking too much? Or does this girl who had NO interest in me sexually, now have interest in me? I mean, comeon, holding onto my arm and BITING my thumb?!?!?

Thanks for any input.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To me it seems like she was just really scared but is comfortable enough around you that she'll grab your arm and bite your thumb.
 

HK1

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IMO, you're over analyzing. You could have flirted around with her though, sexual misinterpretation a great thing. Just have fun with it.
 
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