"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rocko

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Hey guys, I was just curious what you guys would say OR do if the woman you most idolize / worship (in my case Adriana Lima) were to walk up right next to you? I mean, I know I would pretty much force myself to talk to her, but what exactly would you guys say or do???
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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tubagiant89

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I'd probably start joking around. Most chicks find me funny.
Maybe if I asked one out...
 

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I wouldn't idolize her for starters. Then approach like I would any other victim ;)
 

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tubagiant89 said:
Victim... or prize winner.
Indeed. Either way they're lucky to have me.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Exactly what man or women would you idolize? You're the man friend and you "idolizing" some girl is essentially you putting her on a pedestal. Stop. She's just like you in the most basic forms of emotional needs etc. so stop seeing her as something great and realize that she is the same as every other girl out there. YOU are the man and she needs to work for your approval.
 

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Budheavy said:
YOU are the man and she needs to work for your approval.
Ofcourse. However... most men would give up their left testicle to bang Adriana Lima.

To girls like her... all you need to say is:

Hi, this is the size of my bank account
This is how powerful I am
Here is a photo of my yacht
Here is my mansion
...now get on your knees and s*ck my d*ck you dirty ho!
 

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Fash said:
Ofcourse. However... most men would give up their left testicle to bang Adriana Lima.
pretty much, I mean, when you guys say don't put girls on a pedestal, its normally ones that are not rich, and are not supermodels. I mean, its easy to just say "Oh, screw that she's not special" but in cases like her, your **** takes control of you. :eek:
 

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controling urself and being casual can mean even more to a woman who is bored to tears of hormone-driven chumps drooling on her
 

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what you guys would say OR do if the woman you most idolize / worship (in my case Adriana Lima) were to walk up right next to you?

Idolize/Worship? And then guys wonder why girls walk around acting like snots and total b*tches, as if the world owed them something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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