Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What would you say?

Rocko

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Hey guys, I was just curious what you guys would say OR do if the woman you most idolize / worship (in my case Adriana Lima) were to walk up right next to you? I mean, I know I would pretty much force myself to talk to her, but what exactly would you guys say or do???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tubagiant89

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I'd probably start joking around. Most chicks find me funny.
Maybe if I asked one out...
 

KillaCam

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I wouldn't idolize her for starters. Then approach like I would any other victim ;)
 

KillaCam

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tubagiant89 said:
Victim... or prize winner.
Indeed. Either way they're lucky to have me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Budheavy

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Exactly what man or women would you idolize? You're the man friend and you "idolizing" some girl is essentially you putting her on a pedestal. Stop. She's just like you in the most basic forms of emotional needs etc. so stop seeing her as something great and realize that she is the same as every other girl out there. YOU are the man and she needs to work for your approval.
 

Fash

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Budheavy said:
YOU are the man and she needs to work for your approval.
Ofcourse. However... most men would give up their left testicle to bang Adriana Lima.

To girls like her... all you need to say is:

Hi, this is the size of my bank account
This is how powerful I am
Here is a photo of my yacht
Here is my mansion
...now get on your knees and s*ck my d*ck you dirty ho!
 

Rocko

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Fash said:
Ofcourse. However... most men would give up their left testicle to bang Adriana Lima.
pretty much, I mean, when you guys say don't put girls on a pedestal, its normally ones that are not rich, and are not supermodels. I mean, its easy to just say "Oh, screw that she's not special" but in cases like her, your **** takes control of you. :eek:
 

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controling urself and being casual can mean even more to a woman who is bored to tears of hormone-driven chumps drooling on her
 

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what you guys would say OR do if the woman you most idolize / worship (in my case Adriana Lima) were to walk up right next to you?

Idolize/Worship? And then guys wonder why girls walk around acting like snots and total b*tches, as if the world owed them something.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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