"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What would you say is the most important part of your game?!

Mr Plow

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Just because I wanted to know what some key features of game is, so I could make those qualities more prominent, I decided to just start this thread up quickly to see what you guys think.

I mean, an example would be "For me kino is the most important thing" or something like that. I have been working on my alpha male qualities and I think I have most of them going good for me, and I wanna polish it up a bit.

Personally I think wit used in the right sense is very powerful :)

I thought I could maybe make this into a poll, but seeing as I wanted it more open ended, I didn't bother.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desdinova

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Kino is definately #1 for me. You cannot seduce a woman if you cannot touch her.

Second on the list for me is Social Proof. Never, ever under-estimate the power of this. Women are extremely competitive, and if used correctly can land you dates with multiple women.
 

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1. Indiference
2. Building confort & Escalating
3. Sense of humor
 

LostAndConfused

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Social Proof Social Proof Social Proof. Its all you really need to get women in bed.

With it comes confidence, the allowance of kino, everything that has been mentioned in this thread, and everything that will be mentioned.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Randallpink83

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CONFIDENCE


.....CONFIDENCE is everything



Once you have confidence everything else falls in place behind.
being able to approach freely
Good body language
loud voice projection
not afraid to go for what you want
don't care what others think
having fun cause you can be and do what you want
the list goes on.....

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence.... Its also single-handedly probably the most attractive quality a girl can find in a man.
 

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Can I just put everything that composes a man?

It's not one thing, it's being the best man I can be, and being fun to be around.
 
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