"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What would you rather?

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When settling down with a girl, what would you rather?
Girl A) A girl who has had maybe 2-3 sexual partners, but lots of sex with each. or
Girl B) A girl who has had many sexual partners but mainly one night stands.

Assume both are currently STD free, and that Girl A has had more sex than Girl B.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A)...without question
 
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Option C

Die alone.
 
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Is this a serious question? Girl A. Girl A has a better moral compass because she's only opened her legs for 3 dudes, so she has some standards before getting it on with someone. Girl B has no moral compass because anytime she gets horny she finds a dude to bang, regardless of who he might be.

Girl B is definitely more likely to cheat on you as well. Girl A has likely had urges when her man wasn't around, but she didn't act on them. Girl B satisfies any and all urges right when they occur, so if you're not around, sorry she just banged another guy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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