"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you make of this?

BabyFaceComplex

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Or how would you react, she was in my league in the looks department.

I dont go to clubs often or bars really and when I do its not to pick up just to have some drinks with friends and dance.
I also dont keep female friends and keep contact with them to a minimum.

I was standing at the bar of a club still a bit sober and the girl standing next to me who was equally sober casually turned her head to me as she kept her body language closed clutching her drink and started up some small talk with me.

My instinct tells me she just wanted to talk am I right on this or is this an IOI?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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btownbuck2012

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If you had to come on here and inquire about it, then it's an "IOI". Always trust your gut. The fact that it has you wondering means there was a spark of interest there, even if only for a brief moment.
 

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if a woman is initiating conversation with you, always assume she is interested and progress as such, until it becomes obvious she isnt
 

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Definitely nothing serious, your instincts are probably right.
 
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