Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What would YOU like to see in your High School Forum?

TheVirtualMind

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Just like the title says, here is your chance to help get this place going a bit! I'm digging the activity of the Journals, but let's not let it end there. Do you want to see a new High School Bible? Best Of Guide? A biography of your moderators? (HA!) A Bootcamp? A rotation of stickies? A video of me being tortured, locked in a vat of hot dog juice, and the only salvation is a 300 lb. pig-like woman? Let's hear (or read...) your ideas!

*TheVirtualMind would like to point out that any votes for the last idea will result in me wanting to do this to you: :kick: Thank you.*
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All of the above!
Especially compiling brand new and old articles, and competitions.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
All of the above!
Especially compiling brand new and old articles, and competitions.
You would vote for that last option...

I'm going to PM you a bit later to discuss those two options actually.

BPH said:
I want something in terms of winging. It'd be cool to make approaches with somebody else that thinks the same way that I do.

But I doubt anybody else on here is from Delaware.
Check out the Wingman Forum. You'd be surprised how many people might be in your state.
 

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New bible would be great.
Also a revised boot camp designed specifically for hs would be cool.

Lawlz at the hot dog thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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