"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you have done?

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I was out clubbing with a friend on friday. As we were dancing I noticed a girl smiling at me every time I would look at her. I thougt I rest a bit before aproaching her, next time we are back dancing she has a boyfriend. I thought Next, but I noticed they were all the time near us and the girl look at me every time she could, one kiss to her boyfriend then a look back to me:) This went the whole night like that. Even as we were leaving I look back and see her steping back from her guy to see me.

Have you had any experiences like this. What have you done?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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wait until the boyfriend takes a break and approach subtly.

Lik
 

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Next! She has a boyfriend who is probably AFC. You don't need to take what's his because you can. Leave the girls /w BFs alone. Not because you can't get them, but because you probably could...
 

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Got about 5 numbers from that club, then left. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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