"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What would you guys do if your stuck at a party with a girl that's trying to FZ you?

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Where to start? First of all, tonight I'm working til later so I didn't make any plans, instead I'm heading home. There will be a party at my house though, and there's this girl there that was once interested in me but now she's trying to friendzone me (or just keep me around as a backup). She's been seeing some guy for a month (she started flip flopping in her wish to date me or be my friend about 2-3 weeks ago). Anyway I don't really know how to deal with her, other than ignore her. I wouldn't mind dating her but don't really see the point if being her friend. Any ideas guys? What would you do in my shoes? This is partially curiousity.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I should also add that the guy she's seeing will also be at the party.
 
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Dude. She's dating someone else. She's not trying to friendzone you, the game is over. If she speaks, say hi. Other than that, say nothing. If she starts a conversation, say excuse me and walk away. Have fun, talk to other people and forget she exists. Move on. Next.
 
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Warrior74 said:
Dude. She's dating someone else. She's not trying to friendzone you, the game is over. If she speaks, say hi. Other than that, say nothing. If she starts a conversation, say excuse me and walk away. Have fun, talk to other people and forget she exists. Move on. Next.
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my original plan was to ignore her. I never expected to turn it around, obviously this guy has something that she values which I don't have (though I wonder why this guy isn't hanging with his own friends, they've only been seeing each other for a month, but not my business really). I made this thread to see if anyone can come up with something other than ignore her. But whatever, back to that plan. Hopefully she gets the hint I'm not interested in being her friend.
 
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