"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What would you guys do if your stuck at a party with a girl that's trying to FZ you?

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Where to start? First of all, tonight I'm working til later so I didn't make any plans, instead I'm heading home. There will be a party at my house though, and there's this girl there that was once interested in me but now she's trying to friendzone me (or just keep me around as a backup). She's been seeing some guy for a month (she started flip flopping in her wish to date me or be my friend about 2-3 weeks ago). Anyway I don't really know how to deal with her, other than ignore her. I wouldn't mind dating her but don't really see the point if being her friend. Any ideas guys? What would you do in my shoes? This is partially curiousity.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I should also add that the guy she's seeing will also be at the party.
 
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Dude. She's dating someone else. She's not trying to friendzone you, the game is over. If she speaks, say hi. Other than that, say nothing. If she starts a conversation, say excuse me and walk away. Have fun, talk to other people and forget she exists. Move on. Next.
 
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Warrior74 said:
Dude. She's dating someone else. She's not trying to friendzone you, the game is over. If she speaks, say hi. Other than that, say nothing. If she starts a conversation, say excuse me and walk away. Have fun, talk to other people and forget she exists. Move on. Next.
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my original plan was to ignore her. I never expected to turn it around, obviously this guy has something that she values which I don't have (though I wonder why this guy isn't hanging with his own friends, they've only been seeing each other for a month, but not my business really). I made this thread to see if anyone can come up with something other than ignore her. But whatever, back to that plan. Hopefully she gets the hint I'm not interested in being her friend.
 
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