"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What would you guys do if no one wanted to chill with you?

Scion

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I really wanted to get out this weekend, hit up the town for a bit of fun. So called all my friends. Nothing. Asked my roommates. Nothing (which isnt surprising honestly). Called a few other guys who I thought would be up for going out (they arent friends, just guys I know that like clubbing). And once again nothing. So I've used up all my options. I'm honestly tired of going out on the wknd alone. I've done it for months now. Every wknd is the same. Ask everyone I know if they want to go out, and they never do.

I don't know what to do here. I'm not so sure I even want to go out this weekend anymore. What would you guys do here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HolyG

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Go out by yourself buddy, we've all had to do it at some point. You won't get better if you constantly rely on your friends as a safety blanket.
 

PapiChulo

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Go out by yourself and make new friends. Once those f*ggets find out how much fun you had, they will either envy you or join you next time you are out.
 
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