What would YOU do...

[texmex23]

So theres this girl that i've been tryin to get with. Not really trying, but just being me. Shes attractive and i wouldn't mind a chance with her but i hadn't really liked her like as a gf. I've been keeping it C&F ever since like two or three weeks ago, and i dont take any of her bull so if she calls me out i ''hit'' right back. Everyone thought it was funny and that i was the man and stuff but as it went on I went into butthole mode. Not kool, i took it a lil too far so had to tone it down. Well through all this, i'n the back of my head i'm like ''i want her and i think i like her'' and at one point (since like everyone is like ''yall would make such a cute couple'' and "i can feel the tension") she asks me if i like her, and she was being all serious about it but she asked me at the lunch table and i was shocked that she asked me right then and there so i was like "ummm...lets talk about that later''(went blank when she asked me) and then a couple of days later i was in her chair and she was liek 'get up' and i just patted my lap and she sat down. I've tried that for like ever on her just playin around and she did it this time and i was like no way and she doesn't do that with any other guys. Theres another thing though, shes a big flirt and tease with other guys which plants little seeds of doubt but then i think of her askin me that question and the whole lap thing.

At this point i just wanna tell her that i like her and if she likes me too. Cause this one's got me confused. Straight up like that 'cause i'm tired of playin her games (all nice to me and stuff and plays back one day and the next day its like get away from me or dont talk to me) . Plus everyone is like, ask her out already and all that good stuff. Is this a good idea, or do yall have any other ideas that aren't passive but not too agressive.

 

[texmex23]

bump...

 

[toddC]

hmm..i wouldn't tell her you like her verbally, rather just show it....ask her to hang out on a weekend...go out jsut you 2...or if her friends are friends with your friends get a group gathering and just make a move...and if you go in for the kiss and it works pull away and say "does that answer your question?" and w/o letting her answer just go rigth back to kissing her...it'll get her to think and she'll enjoy it that much more.

 

[Docs]

Yeah, follow the date routine, coffee...or golfing, or something. She sounds like a big flirt and it probably won't work, but it doesn't hurt to try.

 

[Dante3214]

Just show her more-than-normal flirtacious attention for awhile (this could mean a couple days). Then ask her out (in any way you want).

It will make it seem "natural", imo.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

if she is a serious flrt with other guys in front of you then i would have second thoughts before asking her out, if a girl finds you attractive, then she would bag the flirting up in front of you.