"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what would you do?

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2 situations:

1st: This chick is hard to break and maybe you can suggest something. Would only let me finger her through my pajama pants (my idea to get her to wear them before we started messing around hah) but was saying "I want that (my ****) so bad but we can't." Should I just put more time into it? Because I've read sexual techniques many times and I know every manuver, she won't cave in. My buddy tried for a week and couldn't get it.

2nd: This girl I met at the beach today and worked serious game on is totally feeling me, but she's in town at her friend's parent's place and leaving in two or three days. They said they might be able to sneak out tonight but I don't usually call them right after I get their number. What do ya'll think I can do to get this before she leaves? They're 17 and have a curfew (need some advice from younger dudes).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No opinions? I fawked up last night because the girls I met on the beach said they wanted to get to know us better before they get drunk wid us :down:

I think the 1st girl knows I ditched her last night... I'm in some trouble. Oh well, time to go recruit some more.
 
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Umm.fvck the 3 days rule, every situation is different...call them up and give her a little going away present. As for girl #1, if you think she's worth the effort then stay at it, if not....NEXT
 
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word.

Here's the moral of this story: the quicker you move on, the quicker your chances go back up.

Got laid by a new hottie last night because I haven't wasted any time on those other two. I really wanted that 17 year old, but this chick was a nice replacement.
 
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