What would you do?

[European-DJ]

I have this girl, dumping her is NOT an option.

But as soon as i ignore her/do not give her the attention, she goes ibnto total biatch mode.

After she has been to a party, i tend to ignore her, just because i know my self well enough to know, that i am a jealous person - Yes, this is a bad personality trait.

But what would you do? what would you answer, when you get a text, looking something like;

"Bla bla bla.. You are ignoring me, i fell forgotten ... bla bla bla... Well, i am not going to be upset today because of you... Have a nice saturday."

I am just wondering, what would you guys have answerd?

"xxx, have a nice saturday".. Or?

Regards

 

[backseatjuan]

Europe is big. You Italian?


I'd move in with her and see how it goes. Wouldn't let her party out alone, and even slap her couple of times if she acts bad. Anti-Dump said you buy a relationship and not build it, well I'm not suggesting you build anything. It is a simple human nature to act differently under different circumstances.

 

[European-DJ]

I think you misunderstood, it is not in the terms of "i cannot dump her because we are going to get married"; i want to work with this girl, on my insecurities (without her knowing it), i want to kill of my jealousy, by being with the girl i am most jealous of.
I want to kill of my insecurity, by being with the girl i fell most insecure around.

Kill fire with fire, face your fears.