What would you do or do you know a come back.

[Tookie]

I'm on my way to becoming a Dj got serval approches and numbers under my belt. One thing being 5'4 I get rejected because of my height or sometimes some girls use my height as an excuse "Your too short for me" has been a classic line. I do get girls some I'm not complaing it's just weird being in that situation what do you do next it feels weirds.

Sometimes I'm like maybe your right then I walk away. But in situations where I'm not able to walk away like in eleavators I don't know what to do or say next I usally say something. Do I just pretend like they aren't their. Also I would like to know how some of youu handle a chick that rejects you and you still have to deal with her, maybe in a work situation, school or just a social circle situation. I know some are like what does it matter if she rejects you but I would like to handle my rejections with grace if it's possible.

 

[619joe]

If your height is really that much of an issue (which you are a wee bit on the small side) you can do many things to overcome this issue.First and most easiest,change up your shoes.You can wear Shox for instance which can add 2 inches atleast.Also maybe spike up your hair?Can appear to make you a bit taller.

Other than that,you are gonna have to deal with it either way.Unless you give me a straight up example,I cant really help you on comebacks.

Something isnt adding up though.I know a few guys who are about 5'6 or in that range who look like DJ's without even trying.Try changing up your look or your tone so people dont end up focusing on your height so much but rather the other greater features.

 

[penkitten]

"but im drinking milk and still growing..."

 

[Obsidian]

bet they wouldn't say that to Tom Cruise

 

[jdawgmcb]

neil strauss (aka style) was 5'6".

he was one of the greatest pick up artists ever. ever.

Stop using height as an excuse

 

[Tookie]

I'm not looking for an excuse or a tap out just how to handle a woman I get rejected from. Basiclly how to handle it if I can't walk away I don't care about them saying I'm sort but what would some of you guys say to woman who rejected you after. LIke "ok" or what.

 

[everywomanshero]

Getting rejected in an elevator? That isn't much time. How are you approaching these women?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Craft the approach so that you retain plausible deniability. Find some common ground, something you both like, then when you ask for the number, it is because of your common interest, not b/c you are hitting on her. Talk about something you both like, build rapport, and then when you ask for the number, if she rejects you like "you are too short for me," just look at her like she is the dumbest women in the world. "What? Huh?" and make her explain. Then if she says anything about a date, be like "ohhhhh, you think...., oh I see...haha" and then walk away. This turns your rejection into her rejection.

 

[Tookie]

^^^^^ This is what I'm talking about.