"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you do in this situation

alphaace

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Going to get straight to the point.

Current g/f was raped when she was 16. She is 20 now. After she was raped she said she said got tested and everything came back clean. After that she had sex with pretty much every guy she could with the logic that after being raped she "wanted to be in control of who she had sex with" and ended up with doing it with 15 guys, mostly ONS. Later she learned she has Herpes Type 2 and tells me she got it from the rape. After she learned she has herpes she only had sex with people she was in a commited relationship now. Before me she says it has been a year and a half since she had sex with someone.

Question is, do you guys think she got the herpes from the rape or the other 15 random dudes she bannged in the following 2 1/2 years? I know its kinda impossible to tell but I just want your input.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not sure if anyone is going to be able to tell you WHO your girl got herpes from? The issue at hand is that she has herpes and if you are messing with her you need to be very careful.
 

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alphaace said:
Going to get straight to the point.

Current g/f was raped when she was 16. She is 20 now. After she was raped she said she said got tested and everything came back clean. After that she had sex with pretty much every guy she could with the logic that after being raped she "wanted to be in control of who she had sex with" and ended up with doing it with 15 guys, mostly ONS. Later she learned she has Herpes Type 2 and tells me she got it from the rape. After she learned she has herpes she only had sex with people she was in a commited relationship now. Before me she says it has been a year and a half since she had sex with someone.

Question is, do you guys think she got the herpes from the rape or the other 15 random dudes she bannged in the following 2 1/2 years? I know its kinda impossible to tell but I just want your input.
everything came back clean from the tests after the rape and yet she blames the rape for contracting herpes? who knows, was the rape investigated? was there actually a rape? who knows? lots of red flags though, more than enough in fact
 

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betheman said:
everything came back clean from the tests after the rape and yet she blames the rape for contracting herpes? who knows, was the rape investigated? was there actually a rape? who knows? lots of red flags though, more than enough in fact

She says they didnt test for everything and later on she got symptons and then went and got tested for it specifically. Im sure the rape was real, she said she was raped and beaten had has been having nightmares along with depression ever since it happined. I plan on having a talk with her about this, it might sound like a **** move but im going to question her about it, my health is more important then a womans word.
 

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Well, looking at it mathematically she has a 1 in 15 chance of telling the truth.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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