"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was out to dinner with my family yesterday, and I thought of something I had never thought of before. When the hostess seated us, our table was kind of sticky and the seats on one side were not all that great either. My dad asked her to clean it up and she did... but how would you handle this situation if you were on a dinner date? I mean you don't wanna let your girl sit at a dirty table but then again you wanna be courteous to the restaurant staff. How would you guys handle this situation to let them know you're not happy with a dirty table... but not come off as being a jerk to the restaurant staff?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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umm lets see, maybe you ask with out any attitude, be polite and freindly.
 
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WC2 said:
Get out much?
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ROFL!

It's simple. You just ask, "Excuse me, but would it be alright if we were to have someone wipe down this table? It's a bit sticky, and I'd rather not sit in it." Keep it light and friendly. There's no need to be rude.
 
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orrrrr

"Hey, I know you guys are busy and such, but could I get somebody to wipe this down for us? Thank you" and give a geniune smile. When they pull the "Oh we're sorry about that" line, just telll them it's no problem.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell the hostess it's quite alright cause your date likes it dirty and you wouldn't be suprised if you got laid right on this table right here right now
 
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Whatever you do you better say something you wouldnt want her to think your afraid
 
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