Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What would you do in my shoes?

Dole

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Hey everyone. I will try to make this short.

So there is this girl that I used to work with when I was 18. Now I am 21 and she is 25. This girl is 8.5/9 in my books. I saw her at the club over the summer and got her number. One day when I was out with my boys she came out with me and one of my friends started hitting on her. I got pissed off at him because he shouldn't be doing that. Long story short I was acting AFC that night and screwed things up. She texted me a few times since then wanting to hang out invited me to her bday and so forth and never happened. Anyways two weeks ago we finally got together. We ended up having sex.

Except you can say that my performance in bed was about 2 or 3 out of 10 (lol). Everything that could go wrong, went wrong. I haven't gotten laid since the summer because I have been trying to focus on school and not chasing any tail.

Anyways to give you an idea how bad I blew it:
-My dad was at home, so was my young sister, who usually is not sleeping over. I couldn't fvck her rough because my room was in between theirs and the bed makes too much noise and so does she.
-I was drunk a little bit(I haven't been drinking since summer) and I had a limp d1ck and didn't feel a thing
-The condom was too small and the rim of the condom was too tight that it screwed up the blood circulation and also limped my d1ck even more
-I couldn't cuum because I was drunk and yah I couldn't do it even though she told me to cuum all over her...
-I was rusty in bed since its been a while
-She said I was being boring because I was not showing any emotions and not making any noise while she was giving me head or while fvcking her

The pros:
I made her orgasm
She told me she has been waiting to fvck me for a long time

My dads leaving for Cuba this sunday. Now I haven't contacted her since then ( two weeks ago ) and neither has she contacted me. I want to have sex with her again while my dads in Cuba.

I have never been in this situation so I come to you guys to see what would be the best approach of doing this if you think there is a chance at all??

So pretty much just tell me what you would do in my situation and I will see what would be the best one for me.

I should also make it clear that I haven't tried contacting her because I feel like that I sucked in bed. After that night I feel like she thinks I suck in bed and she doesn't wanna waste her time with me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Call or text her.. Say, you would like to hang out again and you got the house to yourself.

There really isnt a need to say you sucked in bed and blah blah.. But, you could say something like.. Last time you were a little too drunk and thought tonight would be more fun.

But, the main goal is just to call her and ask her to come over.
 

Freeman

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Dole said:
Hey everyone. I will try to make this short.

So there is this girl that I used to work with when I was 18. Now I am 21 and she is 25. This girl is 8.5/9 in my books. I saw her at the club over the summer and got her number. One day when I was out with my boys she came out with me and one of my friends started hitting on her. I got pissed off at him because he shouldn't be doing that. Long story short I was acting AFC that night and screwed things up. She texted me a few times since then wanting to hang out invited me to her bday and so forth and never happened. Anyways two weeks ago we finally got together. We ended up having sex.

Except you can say that my performance in bed was about 2 or 3 out of 10 (lol). Everything that could go wrong, went wrong. I haven't gotten laid since the summer because I have been trying to focus on school and not chasing any tail.

Anyways to give you an idea how bad I blew it:
-My dad was at home, so was my young sister, who usually is not sleeping over. I couldn't fvck her rough because my room was in between theirs and the bed makes too much noise and so does she.
-I was drunk a little bit(I haven't been drinking since summer) and I had a limp d1ck and didn't feel a thing
-The condom was too small and the rim of the condom was too tight that it screwed up the blood circulation and also limped my d1ck even more
-I couldn't cuum because I was drunk and yah I couldn't do it even though she told me to cuum all over her...
-I was rusty in bed since its been a while
-She said I was being boring because I was not showing any emotions and not making any noise while she was giving me head or while fvcking her

The pros:
I made her orgasm
She told me she has been waiting to fvck me for a long time

My dads leaving for Cuba this sunday. Now I haven't contacted her since then ( two weeks ago ) and neither has she contacted me. I want to have sex with her again while my dads in Cuba.

I have never been in this situation so I come to you guys to see what would be the best approach of doing this if you think there is a chance at all??

So pretty much just tell me what you would do in my situation and I will see what would be the best one for me.

I should also make it clear that I haven't tried contacting her because I feel like that I sucked in bed. After that night I feel like she thinks I suck in bed and she doesn't wanna waste her time with me.

Okay this is what I'll do in your situation-ACT LIKE THE SH^T NEVER HAPPENED!!! if she aint sweatin it and she enjoyed herself then thats all that should matter-next time though just make sure that you buy the RIGHT sized condoms
 

Dole

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Not bad, its always a no unless you ask. So I should just stop all the guessing and find out for my self.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Dole said:
Not bad, its always a no unless you ask. So I should just stop all the guessing and find out for my self.
Just call her up and invite her over.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dole

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I tried contacting her today, no response, no reply. Oh well, summer is around the corner.
 

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You should have offered her candy and said, "Hey little girl, do you want a ride in my van?"
 
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