MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You sound like the guy that was the inspiration for the song, "I'm my own grandpa." :crackup:backbreaker said:i remember when i was younger, about 23 years old and i had just moved back to little rcok from florida and i went to a club downtown called the underground pub and i am in there doing my thing and i run into my step mom.
now, my step mom is closer to my age then my dad. she's 8 years older than me so at the time she was 31 (and my dad was 46). she had had one too many to drink. guys i would fvck the dog **** out of mys tep mom lol. she's like 6'1, very nice body, very beatiful woman, head turner when she walks int he room. she is all over me and she asks me to dance with her. you walk about awkard. part of me wainted to honestly rail her. my dad had just hit on my GF i was dating a few years ago and i still had issues wtih him over it i was thinking this is my one free fvck my step mom card lol. part of me was like dude you can't do this lol.
my friends were with me they were like dude. that looks just like gina (my step mom) i was like dude that IS gina lol.
she told me she would be rihgt back and you know how like when someone is touching you and they hold that hand for one second too long and slide it away, she gave me one of those. i was like oh **** lol. i dipped out lol.
i never have been able to look at her the same sense.